September 23, 2009 A couple of days ago, in another site I was faced with a woman speaking about her abusive husband, a man that hit her and threatened her, and made her feel like crap. She admitted he was wrong and she shouldn’t be treated like that, but went on to add “but he is a good guy most of the time, and besides I owe it to my son to be raised in a 2 parent normal household". NO! In this day and age, there is no “normal” household and even if there was, an abusive one wouldn’t be it for sure! Children may not know what is going on, because you’re a good actress, or may not understand it, because they don’t know any better, but they know something is off, and worst you are their everything, and what you do is to them gospel at a basic instinctive level, and as such they will emulate your every move. How many times have we seen the children prancing around on their mother clothes? Or attempting to mimic their fathers frown? Children will grow up to be wh...